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"Soulmates"

This term sounds good only when my favourite people who have worked towards their relationships, use it to describe their yet-to-marry or married partners. The other times, it sounds as though they are caught bribing!
After 52 days of doing nothing, this theory is another hypothesis in question for me.

The first thing that pops up when I think of soulmate is apparently not my mate, but the adds for psychic readings with a big FREE tab on them at almost all the sites. You will know the reason for this anti-Mills & Boons theory if you have come across any of those.


All I could sense out of that was the psychics' penchant for brain washing words!
What we, the non-psychics call attraction/hormonal imbalance or appreciation of beauty(for the non derogatory speakers), the psychics name it as instant emotional connect or instinct....

Another interesting thing to share here is that I have hardly come across any couple where both have felt that they always belonged to each other.

Y SO?????

May be because the "doer" is so accomodative that the believer believes that the other person has been sent by God just for him/her.
Finally when the music fades and the relationship requires work, one or both the partners suddenly discover that they were 'mistaken'. If they were soulmates, it wouldn't be so much work afterall!

According to theosophy, a perfect human being is spilt into separate genders apparently by god because of karma incurred by them. Over a number of reincarnations, each half seeks the other. When all the karmic debts are cleared, the two will fuse back together and return to the ultimate!
Ultimate crap!!!!!!

Ideally, the rights of giving gyan on this belongs to either a person who has had many disasters or a person with a history of a single long lasted relationship, but who cares???;-);-)

love  gyan is all about giving!!!!



So, here goes my derivings from the above observation...

Soulmate: The one who is not easily attainable in a man's present life(The reason being disparity either in attractiveness/status/ CASTE/religion/temperament)
Sole-mate: The one who is too occupied to have too many affairs..
Lastly, what do you call a person interested in married/committed people???
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Checkmate!!!!!;-)

Comments

  1. no comments since it is not my area of intrest.....

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  2. hahaha... most of the things went over ma head.. not ma area of interest too... but Y SO????? question can be answered... every human being in this world is not satisfied wit the one he has got.. either its a material or a persom... some where in the corner of the brain will be still thinkin, " k i deserve someone better"

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